#1866

It was narrated that:Mughirah bin Shubah said: “I came to the Prophet and told him of a woman to whom I had to propose marriage. He said: 'Go and look at her, for that is more likely to create love between you.' So I went to a woman among the Ansar and proposed marriage through her parents. I told them what the Prophet had said, and it was as if they did not like that. Then I heard that woman, behind her curtain, say: 'If the Messenger of Allah has told you to do that, then do it, otherwise I adjure you by Allah (not to do so)'. And it was as if she regarded that as a serious matter. So I looked at her and married her.” And he mentioned how well he got along with her

حدثنا الحسن بن ابي الربيع، انبانا عبد الرزاق، عن معمر، عن ثابت البناني، عن بكر بن عبد الله المزني، عن المغيرة بن شعبة، قال اتيت النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فذكرت له امراة اخطبها فقال " اذهب فانظر اليها فانه اجدر ان يودم بينكما " . فاتيت امراة من الانصار فخطبتها الى ابويها واخبرتهما بقول النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم . فكانهما كرها ذلك . قال فسمعت ذلك المراة وهي في خدرها فقالت ان كان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم امرك ان تنظر فانظر . والا فاني انشدك كانها اعظمت ذلك . قال فنظرت اليها فتزوجتها . فذكر من موافقتها