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It was narrated from Umm Salamah, that when her 'Iddah had ended, Abu Bakr sent word to her proposing marriage to her, but she did not marry him. Then the Messenger of Allah sent 'Umar bin Al-Khattab with a proposal of marriage. She said:"Tell the Messenger of Allah that I am a jealous woman and that I have sons, and none of my guardians are present." He went to the Messenger of Allah and told him that. He said: "Go back to her and tell her: As for your saying that you are a jealous woman, I will pray to Allah for you to take away your jealousy. As for your saying that you have sons, your sons will be taken care of. And as for your saying that none of your guardians are present, none of your guardians, present or absent, would object to that." She said to her son: "O 'Umar, get up and perform the marriage to the Messenger of Allah," so he performed the marriage

اخبرنا محمد بن اسماعيل بن ابراهيم، قال حدثنا يزيد، عن حماد بن سلمة، عن ثابت البناني، حدثني ابن عمر بن ابي سلمة، عن ابيه، عن ام سلمة، لما انقضت عدتها بعث اليها ابو بكر يخطبها عليه فلم تزوجه فبعث اليها رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم عمر بن الخطاب يخطبها عليه فقالت اخبر رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم اني امراة غيرى واني امراة مصبية وليس احد من اوليايي شاهد . فاتى رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فذكر ذلك له فقال " ارجع اليها فقل لها اما قولك اني امراة غيرى فسادعو الله لك فيذهب غيرتك واما قولك اني امراة مصبية فستكفين صبيانك واما قولك ان ليس احد من اوليايي شاهد فليس احد من اوليايك شاهد ولا غايب يكره ذلك " . فقالت لابنها يا عمر قم فزوج رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فزوجه . مختصر