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Narrated Jabir:It was narrated from Jabir that he married a woman at the time of the Messenger of Allah, and the Prophet met him and said: "Have you got married, O Jabir?" He said: 'Yes.' He said: 'A virgin or a previously-married woman?' I said: 'A previously-married woman.' He said: 'Why not a virgin who would play with you?' I said: 'O Messenger of Allah, I have sisters, and I did not want her to come between them and I.' He said: 'That's better then. A woman may be married for her religious commitment, her wealth or her beauty. You should choose the one who is religiously committed, may your hands be rubbed with dust (may you prosper)

اخبرنا اسماعيل بن مسعود، قال حدثنا خالد، عن عبد الملك، عن عطاء، عن جابر، انه تزوج امراة على عهد رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فلقيه النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقال " اتزوجت يا جابر " . قال قلت نعم قال " بكرا ام ثيبا " . قال قلت بل ثيبا . قال " فهلا بكرا تلاعبك " . قال قلت يا رسول الله كن لي اخوات فخشيت ان تدخل بيني وبينهن . قال " فذاك اذا ان المراة تنكح على دينها ومالها وجمالها فعليك بذات الدين تربت يداك