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Jabir b. 'Abdullah (Allah be pleased with them) reported:Abu Bakr (Allah be pleased with him) came and sought permission to see Allah's Messenger (ﷺ). He found people sitting at his door and none amongst them had been granted permission, but it was granted to Abu Bakr and he went in. Then came 'Umar and he sought permission and it was granted to him, and he found Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) sitting sad and silent with his wives around him. He (Hadrat 'Umar) said: I would say something which would make the Prophet (ﷺ) laugh, so he said: Messenger of Allah, I wish you had seen (the treatment meted out to) the daughter ofKhadija when you asked me some money, and I got up and slapped her on her neck. Allah's Messenger (mav peace be upon him) laughed and said: They are around me as you see, asking for extra money. Abu Bakr (Allah be pleased with him) then got up went to 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) and slapped her on the neck, and 'Umar stood up before Hafsa and slapped her saying: You ask Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) which he does not possess. They said: By Allah, we do not ask Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) for anything he does not possess. Then he withdrew from them for a month or for twenty-nine days. Then this verse was revealed to him:" Prophet: Say to thy wives... for a mighty reward" (xxxiii. 28). He then went first to 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) and said: I want to propound something to you, 'A'isha, but wish no hasty reply before you consult your parents. She said: Messenger of Allah, what is that? He (the Holy Prophet) recited to her the verse, whereupon she said: Is it about you that I should consult my parents, Messenger of Allah? Nay, I choose Allah, His Messenger, and the Last Abode; but I ask you not to tell any of your wives what I have said He replied: Not one of them will ask me without my informing her. God did not send me to be harsh, or cause harm, but He has sent me to teach and make things easy

وحدثنا زهير بن حرب، حدثنا روح بن عبادة، حدثنا زكرياء بن اسحاق، حدثنا ابو الزبير، عن جابر بن عبد الله، قال دخل ابو بكر يستاذن على رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فوجد الناس جلوسا ببابه لم يوذن لاحد منهم - قال - فاذن لابي بكر فدخل ثم اقبل عمر فاستاذن فاذن له فوجد النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم جالسا حوله نساوه واجما ساكتا - قال - فقال لاقولن شييا اضحك النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فقال يا رسول الله لو رايت بنت خارجة سالتني النفقة فقمت اليها فوجات عنقها . فضحك رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم وقال " هن حولي كما ترى يسالنني النفقة " . فقام ابو بكر الى عايشة يجا عنقها فقام عمر الى حفصة يجا عنقها كلاهما يقول تسالن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ما ليس عنده . فقلن والله لا نسال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم شييا ابدا ليس عنده ثم اعتزلهن شهرا او تسعا وعشرين ثم نزلت عليه هذه الاية { يا ايها النبي قل لازواجك} حتى بلغ { للمحسنات منكن اجرا عظيما} قال فبدا بعايشة فقال " يا عايشة اني اريد ان اعرض عليك امرا احب ان لا تعجلي فيه حتى تستشيري ابويك " . قالت وما هو يا رسول الله فتلا عليها الاية قالت افيك يا رسول الله استشير ابوى بل اختار الله ورسوله والدار الاخرة واسالك ان لا تخبر امراة من نسايك بالذي قلت . قال " لا تسالني امراة منهن الا اخبرتها ان الله لم يبعثني معنتا ولا متعنتا ولكن بعثني معلما ميسرا