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A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported that there came Aflah the brother, of Abu'l-Qu'ais, who sought her permission (to enter) after seclusion was instituted, and AbuQu'ais was the father of 'A'isha by reason of fosterage. 'A'isha said:By Allah, I would not permit Aflah unless I have solicited the opinion of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) for Abu Qulais has not suckled me, but his wife has given me suck. 'A'isha' (Allah be pleased with her) said: When Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) entered, I said: Allah's Messenger, Aflah is the brother of Abu'l-Qulais; he came to me to seek my permission for entering (the houst). I did not like the idea of granting him permission until I had solicited your opinion. Thereupon Allah's Apostle (ﷺ) said: Grant him permission. 'Urwa said it was on account of this that 'A'isha used to say. What is unlawful by reason of consanguinity is unlawful by reason of fosterage

وحدثني حرملة بن يحيى، حدثنا ابن وهب، اخبرني يونس، عن ابن شهاب، عن عروة، ان عايشة، اخبرته انه، جاء افلح اخو ابي القعيس يستاذن عليها بعد ما نزل الحجاب - وكان ابو القعيس ابا عايشة من الرضاعة - قالت عايشة فقلت والله لا اذن لافلح حتى استاذن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فان ابا القعيس ليس هو ارضعني ولكن ارضعتني امراته - قالت عايشة - فلما دخل رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قلت يا رسول الله ان افلح اخا ابي القعيس جاءني يستاذن على فكرهت ان اذن له حتى استاذنك - قالت - فقال النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم " ايذني له " . قال عروة فبذلك كانت عايشة تقول حرموا من الرضاعة ما تحرمون من النسب