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A'isha reported that when the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) was told that Ibn Haritha, Ja'far b. Abu Talib and Abdullah b. Rawaha were killed, he sat down, showing signs of grief. She (further) said:I was looking (at him) through the crevice of the door. A man came to him and mentioned that Ja'far's women were lamenting. He (the Holy Prophet) commanded him to go and forbid them (to do so). So he went away but came back and told (him) that they did not obey (him). He commanded him a second time to go and forbid them (to do so). He again went but came back to him and said: I swear by God, Messenger of Allah, that they have overpowered us. She ('A'isha) said that she thought the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) had told (her) to throw dust in their mouths. Thereupon 'A'isha said: May Allah humble you! You did not do what Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) ordered you, nor did you stop annoying Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)

وحدثنا ابن المثنى، وابن ابي عمر، قال ابن المثنى حدثنا عبد الوهاب، قال سمعت يحيى بن سعيد، يقول اخبرتني عمرة، انها سمعت عايشة، تقول لما جاء رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قتل ابن حارثة وجعفر بن ابي طالب وعبد الله بن رواحة جلس رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يعرف فيه الحزن قالت وانا انظر من صاير الباب - شق الباب - فاتاه رجل فقال يا رسول الله ان نساء جعفر وذكر بكاءهن فامره ان يذهب فينهاهن فذهب فاتاه فذكر انهن لم يطعنه فامره الثانية ان يذهب فينهاهن فذهب ثم اتاه فقال والله لقد غلبننا يا رسول الله . قالت فزعمت ان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال " اذهب فاحث في افواههن من التراب " . قالت عايشة فقلت ارغم الله انفك والله ما تفعل ما امرك رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم وما تركت رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم من العناء