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Narrated `Aisha:(the wife of the Prophet) The wife of Rifa`a Al-Qurazi came to Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) while I was sitting, and Abu Bakr was also there. She said, 'O Allah's Apostle! I was the wife of Rifa`a and he divorced me irrevocably. Then I married `AbdurRahman bin Az-Zubair who, by Allah, O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), has only something like a fringe of a garment, Showing the fringe of her veil. Khalid bin Sa`id, who was standing at the door, for he had not been admitted, heard her statement and said, "O Abu Bakr! Why do you not stop this lady from saying such things openly before Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)?" No, by Allah, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) did nothing but smiled. Then he said to the lady, "Perhaps you want to return to Rifa`a? That is impossible unless `Abdur-Rahman consummates his marriage with you." That became the tradition after him

حدثنا ابو اليمان، اخبرنا شعيب، عن الزهري، اخبرني عروة بن الزبير، ان عايشة رضى الله عنها زوج النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قالت جاءت امراة رفاعة القرظي رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم وانا جالسة وعنده ابو بكر فقالت يا رسول الله اني كنت تحت رفاعة فطلقني فبت طلاقي، فتزوجت بعده عبد الرحمن بن الزبير، وانه والله ما معه يا رسول الله الا مثل هذه الهدبة. واخذت هدبة من جلبابها، فسمع خالد بن سعيد قولها وهو بالباب لم يوذن له، قالت فقال خالد يا ابا بكر الا تنهى هذه عما تجهر به عند رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم فلا والله ما يزيد رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم على التبسم، فقال لها رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم " لعلك تريدين ان ترجعي الى رفاعة، لا، حتى يذوق عسيلتك وتذوقي عسيلته ". فصار سنة بعد