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Narrated Anas bin Malik:The Prophet (ﷺ) passed by a woman who was weeping beside a grave. He told her to fear Allah and be patient. She said to him, "Go away, for you have not been afflicted with a calamity like mine." And she did not recognize him. Then she was informed that he was the Prophet (ﷺ) . so she went to the house of the Prophet (ﷺ) and there she did not find any guard. Then she said to him, "I did not recognize you." He said, "Verily, the patience is at the first stroke of a calamity

حدثنا ادم، حدثنا شعبة، حدثنا ثابت، عن انس بن مالك رضى الله عنه قال مر النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم بامراة تبكي عند قبر فقال " اتقي الله واصبري ". قالت اليك عني، فانك لم تصب بمصيبتي، ولم تعرفه. فقيل لها انه النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم. فاتت باب النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم فلم تجد عنده بوابين فقالت لم اعرفك. فقال " انما الصبر عند الصدمة الاولى