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Yahya related to me from Malik from Nafic that Saffiyya bint Abi Ubayd suffered from an eye-complaint while she was in mourning for her husband, Abdullah ibn Umar. She did not apply kohl until her eyes almost had ramas (a dry white secretion in the corners of the eye). Malik said, "A woman whose husband has died should anoint her eyes with olive oil and sesame oil and the like of that since there is no perfume in it." Malik said, "A woman in mourning for her husband should not put on any jewellery - rings, anklets, or such- like, neither should she dress in any sort of colourful, striped garment unless it is coarse. She should not wear any cloth dyed with anything except black, and she should only dress her hair with things like lotus-tree leaves which do not dye the hair

وحدثني عن مالك، عن نافع، ان صفية بنت ابي عبيد، اشتكت عينيها وهي حاد على زوجها عبد الله بن عمر فلم تكتحل حتى كادت عيناها ترمصان . قال مالك تدهن المتوفى عنها زوجها بالزيت والشبرق وما اشبه ذلك اذا لم يكن فيه طيب . قال مالك ولا تلبس المراة الحاد على زوجها شييا من الحلى خاتما ولا خلخالا ولا غير ذلك من الحلى ولا تلبس شييا من العصب الا ان يكون عصبا غليظا ولا تلبس ثوبا مصبوغا بشىء من الصبغ الا بالسواد ولا تمتشط الا بالسدر وما اشبهه مما لا يختمر في راسها